In Memory of Rob Marsden 1959-2003
It is with great sadness that we inform you that
one of our club members,
Rob Marsden passed away on
Wednesday 10th September 2003.
Despite Rob being unwell for some time, it was
only in the last 6 months that Rob
gave up playing matches, and even then,
he came down for the odd club night.
Rob played for the club for a number of years
and was not only a fine
respected, competitive but fair, and committed
player for the club,
but more importantly, was a really nice
person to know off the
court.
Rob would always be willing to help others whether it was something small
like being the cab driver for the evening for the odd social night out, or
something bigger like the various charities he put a lot of time and effort into
supporting. He will
be deeply missed.
Our sincerest sympathies go to his
wife Chris and family from
all club members
at Gadebridge Badminton Club who knew him.
If
you wish to add your own personal memories or stories about Rob,
Please
e-mail me, and I will add them to the tributes already listed
on
Rob's
service page.
To
see more of the type of jokes and sense of humour Rob had,
please check out my
website at http://www.btinternet.com/~wawazat/,
selecting "More info about Gaz" from my home page, then click
on
the section labeled "amuse yourself with some jokes". These
particular
jokes were used at the Xmas meal 2001 where Rob and I were in stitches
and literally exhausted from laughing so much!
Rest in peace Rob, your mate "Gazzer"
14th Sept 2003
Emails
(received 15.2.04) from Rob's children
"I
used to go and watch my dad play badminton and he was good. i
love u dad"
"my
dad was a nice man and he was loving and caring he always played with me" i
love him
love emily age 9
The music playing is "And the Tide Rushes in" written
by Ray Thomas
From the Moody Blues Album Question of
Balance, 1970
I thought the song's
tempo, mood and lyrics suited this sad occasion, and as such
I added my own interpretation of the lyrics.
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Lyrics
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My interpretation of the
lyrics
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Title
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The
tide in the title is the pressures and problems we face in life;
powerful, potentially destructive, potentially useful, but
inevitable, unstoppable.
These
pressures and problems can overwhelm a person's efforts to lead a
normal existence, and can significantly impact or destroy your dreams, goals and aspirations.
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I’ve been searching for my dream
A hundred times today,
I build them up, you knock them down.
Like they were made of clay,
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Your dreams, goals and aspirations can be the simple things in life, or
they can be challenging, and if you are passionate
about them, you think about them frequently.
Irrespective of how
simple or challenging they are, they are
important to you hence you think of them often, but no matter how hard you
try, again and again, the everyday pressures and problems of life can
impact or destroy them.
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Then the tide rushes in
And washes my castles away.
Then I’m really not so sure
Which side of the bed I should lay,
I should lay...
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Sometimes
the problems overcome you quickly, taking you by surprise,
The
castle is the representation of a passionate dream, goal or aspiration,
something which is solid and strong, a source of comfort such as
"an Englishman's home is his castle". The castle also represents the
strongest most important thing in someone's life, their family,
their future.
When
the problem destroys your dream, goals or aspirations, you cannot
really be sure what to do next hence the uncertainty.
Given
a choice of side, the bed is empty, and the
fact it is a bed, represents a deep emptiness of love which has or
will be lost.
Once
your dreams have been destroyed, you have to make choices of what to do next, and sometimes
the choice can be irrelevant, since your dreams have been destroyed,
nothing more is important to you.
When
in shock, even a choice of something trivial confuses and confounds you.
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You keep looking for someone
To tell your troubles to,
I sit down and lend an ear
Yet I hear nothing new.
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You
continually look for someone to talk to about your problem, and although they
listen, they cannot help you,
and your problems cannot be solved, no matter who you
talk to or see. Time is running out.
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Chorus x2
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Blackbird sitting in a tree
Observing what’s below,
Acorns falling to the ground,
He’ll stay and watch them grow.
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And
eventually, you accept the inevitable, and there is nothing you can do.
Life will go on, and abnormal normality continues.
The bird in the tree
provides an helicopter and non-participant view of the world below, observing not only the normality all around
you and below you, but
of growth
and new life.
You need to live
life for yourself and those nearest you as best as you can for as long as
you can. And the cycle of life
goes on and on, which is the way of the world and the universe, irrespective
of what you might believe or not believe in, the lowest common denominator
of Religion, Philosophy, Science and Atheism.
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Gazzer,
Sept 14th 2003 |